Thursday, September 15, 2016

Sexism, Ageism, and the Amazing Disappearing Woman

Dos Equis Ad
Headline: A Man is Considered Old
77 year old Jonathan Goldsmith, who has portrayed The Most Interesting Man in the World for Dos Equis since 2007 has been put out to pasture. In his place is 44 year old French actor Agustin Legrande. Apparently, even a man has an expiration date in the world of advertising.
Agustin Legrande
During his years as The Most Interesting Man...Mr. Goldsmith was often shown surrounded by lovely young women who were clearly enamored by, and attracted to this "stunning example of male magnetism."
Dos Equis & Young, Adoring Women
Now, imagine for a moment, that an ad campaign appealing to a sophisticated, sexy, and cosmopolitan audience showed a 77 YEAR OLD WOMAN surrounded by adoring 25 year old men? Ha! What planet would that ad inhabit?
Another Planet
No, Jonathan Goldsmith is not some aging film star. Yes, he did some TV guest appearances in the 60's through the 80's. but he was definitely not a recognizable face.

Disney's Fantasyland
So, back in Fantasyland, imagine a non-actor woman who is in her 70's picked as the gorgeous, sexy spokesperson for a product aimed at a mostly male audience. We all know fabulous septuagenarians who have actually lived really interesting lives (probably far more so than Mr. Goldsmith) who could easily step into this role. But, we also know that yes, it's still a fantasy.

So this posting is about ageism and especially the prejudice against women over 50 by both men and women. With the exception to two previous postings, this writer has never spoken in the first person. Because I have lots of personal experience with this not-new-phenomenon, this posting will be another exception.

Ageism in the Marketplace

Millenials
Ageism in the job search: yes, kiddies, this applies to you who are in your aging 20's and trying to compete in the tech world. Ashton Applewhite wrote a great piece about this in the NY Times op-ed section Sunday, Sept. 4, 2016. "You're How Old? We'll Be in Touch."
http://mobile.nytimes.com/2016/09/04/opinion/sunday/youre-how-old-well-be-in-touch.html

As one who has applied for numerous jobs that I'm extensively qualified for, and yet never even getting an interview, I know that my resume has automatically been put into "pile #2". Said resume has been re-worked and edited several times to highlight skills and experience rather than jobs that go back several decades. But we all know the code words used in job postings;  my new favorite recruit term is for "digital natives".

What Happened to Feminism?
The Third Wave of the Women's Movement, 1970's
My first experience with blatant ageism was, surprisingly, within a group of women. Having left my museum job, and while I was teaching an on-line university course, I pursued another passion: animal rescue.
A Shelter Friend
I joined the Volunteers of the Burbank Animal Shelter and, since the group was still in relative infancy, I stepped up to start a Development program, and along the way took over numerous administrative tasks. Imagine my surprise when I thought I was joining an organization whose mission it was to enhance the lives of rescued animals and help get them adopted, only to very quickly see that I was an elder in an atmosphere more akin to a casting agency for pretty young women.
50's Blonde
I'd never been in an environment where youth and attractiveness was a dominant factor in who would be photographed, who would be pushed into more public roles, and who was the best looking volunteer. OMG! We were animal shelter volunteers! In one woman's grant application for funding a rescue project, she wanted to portray diversity, so she tried to assign me the title "retired senior citizen." I was 53 years old.

Curb Your Enthusiasm
In spite of the ageist atmosphere, I worked very hard to help the precious animals who passed through the shelter. And, in creating the first Development brochure, I made sure that volunteers of different ages and ethnicity's were all represented.
Terri Strum and Bonita

Ken Green and Ruthie and Lloyd

Etsuko Mason and Louise
....not a blonde starlet in the mix.

The Amazing Disappearing Woman
Sid Cavanaugh and The Ghost
Another interesting phenomenon happens when a woman in particular reaches 50. She magically disappears.
It's Magic
This is especially true if she takes a different and unexpected turn in life. Although I was doing new and challenging things, and contributing to society in important ways, because I was no longer in "the professional art world", I was apparently no longer interesting. At dinner parties and engagements with friends, I became part of the proverbial wallpaper as my husband was plied with questions about his business, travels, etc.
Wallpaper
The Good News
The best news is that, because I thrive in diversity, I have great friends who are interesting people doing some pretty amazing things. Some are significantly older than me (if that's possible), some are my age, and some are young enough to be my kids. Even though some of us have and will experience overt and covert ageism, I believe the secret to remaining ageless is to surround oneself with a group of people who don't all inhabit the same demographic...
Lots of Different People
keep learning and trying new things...
Rosetta Stone Language Course
and above all, give back to the world....
A Volunteer Poster









Saturday, September 3, 2016

Time Travel

After re-visiting Downton Abbey awhile ago, a question of period pieces arose: will we look back at that early 21st c. drama that took us from the Titanic to 1925 thinking that it looked true to the period, or will it look “so 2010”? Do "historic" dramas and comedies actually reflect the period in which they are supposed to be set, or do they simply look like the year in which they are made, with some “period” costumes thrown into it?  

Dickens' A Tale of Two Cities (1859) was set in London and Paris just before and during the French Revolution (1789-1799). Are the hairstyles, make-up, and clothing true to that decade of upheaval?
A Tale of Two Cities 1911


A Tale of Two Cities 1936
Of course, do we really want our films and television to reflect a moment in history accurately? Do we want to immerse ourselves into a time before a daily shower, 3x daily tooth-brushing, and regular laundry? Are we more comfortable with make-up and hairstyles that we see in our daily lives?

Napoleon Bonaparte lived from 1769 to 1821.
Napoleon 1927
The title of James Fenimore Cooper's book was The Last of the Mohican's: a Narrative of 1757.

The Last of the Mohicans 1936
The Last of the Mohicans 1992
Although Scarlett had her corset and Rhett his cravat, do we really want those two characters to reflect the popular styles of the Civil War?

Gone With the Wind 1939
Steven Spielberg's Abraham Lincoln looked incredibly authentic to our 2012 eyes, but will it still have the look of reality in 2030?
Abraham Lincoln 2012
And did we really think that Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid, with Katherine Ross's 1969 eye make-up and "Raindrops Keep Fallin' on My Head" (yikes!) in the background looked and sounded like the 1890's?
Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid 1969
Were Julie Christie's bouffant hairdo and blue eyeshadow right out of the Russian Revolution?
Dr. Zivago 1965
Characters and events of the 20th c. have been revisited many times in movies and television. The closer to the actual event when the film is made, there is a truer picture of that time period. The Last Battalion is the story of America's late 77th Battalion's entry into World War I. To our modern eyes, the second iteration looks really authentic. Will it hold up 30 years from now?

The Last Battalion 1919

The Last Battalion 2001

The Titanic sank on April 15, 1912. Which, in 2016, looks closer to that date, Downton Abbey, or the two films?
Downton Abbey 2010

Titanic 1943 German propaganda film

Titanic 1997
Period films and television series (think Happy Days, Laverne and Shirley, and That 70's Show) will be made forever. Try to guess when the following films were made and, with our 2016 eyes, do they reflect, at all, the period they're supposed to represent?
How the West Was Won
Bonnie and Clyde
The King's Speech

From Here to Eternity

Good Night and Good Luck

Grease
The Doors
Milk



A Cynthia textile vignette

20,000 BC. The cave walls of El Castillo and Altamira, and the Pech-Merle grotto in France reveal the first known attempts to make patterns. We humans have been patterning everything, including ourselves, for millennia, and the cloth that protected our bodies was no exception. Once twisting and weaving threads to make cloth began, it was no time before dyeing that same fabric evolved into printing.

Printing blocks from China have been found that date back to around 3000 BC. By the time Alexander the Great invaded India in 327 BC, colorful printed and painted chintzes, together with brightly colored tie-dyed cottons, were common. Santa Fe Fabrics offers some of the most beautiful block printed and resist dyed fabrics available.

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From santafefabrics.com





And now, a word from Reggie....

New Austen friends, Michelle and Alexander Webb-Fandrich, who are living "Down Under" for a year, arrived this week. They arrived during the biggest rain storm of the season, which made for amazing mud holes. Xander and I had the best time racing around the yard and jumping into an Olympic-size mud pool. Boy, did I make a new friend!

As always in my sad life, "they" took my friend away to show him lots of the fun things in Santa Fe. I was only allowed to have him to myself at the end of the day, when we played chase and tug-a-war. Of course, Xander's mom, Michelle, gave me lots of love and petting, which we know I rarely get from the Cavanaughs. Desi made his presence known, as always, and Lucy hid most of the time. That's great, cuz then I get all the attention.
At the NM History Museum

At the NM History Museum

Xander Rabbit Ears

Chavez Skating Rink (the photographer had a broken toe)

At the NM Folk Art Museum


At the NM Museum of Indian Art and Culture



Tuesday, August 2, 2016

The Very Best Olives

July, a terrace surrounded by ancient olive trees, lavender, and scented jasmine. We dine at a rustic table with the cool blue of the Aegean in the distance.
Old white-washed stone walls create a beautiful backdrop for the glorious saturated colors of the mixed pottery and homespun stripes covering the table.
A platter of grilled sea bass caught this morning, ruby tomatoes, luscious oily olives, feta and goat cheese, along with chewy, yeasty flat bread sit next to chilled Patra.

A Peloponnesian Lunch

Grilled Sea Bass

2 lemons
3 Tbsp. olive oil
1 Tbsp. fresh oregano leaves
1 tsp. ground coriander
1 ¼ tsp. salt
2 whole sea bass
¼ tsp. ground black pepper
2 large oregano sprigs

Prepare charcoal fire or gas grill for covered direct grilling over medium heat.

Meanwhile, from one lemon, grate 1 Tbsp. peel and squeeze 2 Tbsp. juice. Cut half of remaining lemon into slices, other half into wedges. In small bowl, stir lemon juice and peel, oil, chopped oregano, coriander, and ¼ tsp. salt.

Rinse fish and pat dry with paper towels. Make 3 slashes in both sides of each fish. Sprinkle inside and out with pepper and remaining 1 tsp. salt. Place lemon slices and oregano sprigs inside fish cavity. Place fish in 13” by 9” glass baking dish. Rub half of oil mixture over outsides of fish; reserve remaining oil mixture to drizzle over cooked fish. Let stand at room temperature 15 minutes.

Lightly grease grill rack; place fish on hot rack. Cover grill and cook fish 12 to 14 minutes or until fish just turns opaque throughout and thickest part flakes easily when tested with a fork, turning fish over once.

To serve, place fish on cutting board. Working with 1 fish at a time, with knife, cut along backbone from head to tail. Slide wide metal spatula or cake server under front section of top fillet and lift off from backbone; transfer to platter. Gently pull out backbone and rib bones from bottom fillet and discard. Transfer bottom fillet to platter. Repeat with second fish. Drizzle fillets with the remaining oil mixture. Serve with lemon wedges.


Vegetable Platter

Vine ripened tomatoes cut into wedges
The best Greek olives
Feta cheese cut into cubes
Sliced cucumbers and red onions
Good quality Greek olive oil sprinkled over, with salt and fresh oregano


Pita Bread

2 tsp. active dry yeast
½ tsp. sugar
35 grams (¼ c) whole-wheat flour
310 grams (2 ½ c) unbleached all-purpose flour
1 tsp. kosher salt
2 Tbsp. olive oil

Dissolve yeast and sugar in 1 c. warm water (115°-120°). Add the whole-wheat flour and ¼ c. all-purpose flour and whisk together. Put bowl in a warm (not hot) place, uncovered, until mixture is frothy and bubbling, about 15 minutes.

Add salt, olive oil and nearly all remaining all-purpose flour (reserve ½ c). With dough hook in a standing mixer, or with a wooden spoon, stir until mixture forms shaggy mass. Add reserved flour and knead with hook or manually for one minute.

Turn dough onto work surface or leave in mixing bowl with dough hook. Knead for 2 minutes until smooth. Cover (if kneading manually) and rest for 10 minutes. Continue to knead until dough is just soft and still a bit moist.

Spray a clean bowl with cooking spray and roll all sides of dough ball in bowl. Cover with a towel and let rise in a warm place until dough is doubled in size, about 1 hour.

Heat oven to 475° and place a baking sheet on the bottom shelf of oven. Punch down risen dough and divide into 8 balls. Cover with a towel on work surface and rest for 10 minutes. Remove one ball at a time (keep others covered). Roll to a 6” circle, then to an 8” diameter, about 1/8” thick, dusting with flour if necessary.

Carefully lift the dough circle and place quickly on hot baking sheet. After 2 minutes the dough should be nicely puffed. Turn over with tongs or spatula and bake 1 minute more. The pita should be pale, with only a few brown speckles. Transfer warm pita to a napkin-lined basket and cover so bread stays soft.



And now, a long-awaited word from Reggie.....

I can't believe I finally get to say a few words. You know, the Cavanaughs tend to like to keep me "muzzled" because they never know what brilliant (or embarrassing) tidbits I might reveal. I'm having my usual tough summer of doggy day care, the dog park, naps, poking around the yard, and trying to keep those OTHERS (they call them Desi and Lucy) in line. Some of my favorite humans have come visit. Kataya is one of them, and I know she actually stayed with us just to see me, not the Cavanaughs. Here she is all glammed up for her 8th grade graduation dance. I'm just really mad that she and her mom moved so far away.

Our cousin Janie sent a picture of my pal, Birdy along with a nice letter to me. She's the fab girl who sent me my favorite toy, The Green Alien. 
Me with the Green Alien

Here's Birdy and her letter to me:

Dear Reg, here's me plopped on 'the scary step'. There's something about this particular stair step that stops me in my tracks. Now, if someone comes to the door, I have no problem scampering down the stairs to greet them. But I know that when I refuse to move from this stair step, my mom will spend lots of time babying me to get me to move. I get so much attention (like I don't normally - ha!) from her that it's sort of become a habit. I bet you have all kinds of habits that bring you even more attention...particularly from your dad. We all know what a sucker he is for your shenanigans. We should share our tricks to get our humans to bow down to us. I'm sure you could use even more to get those Cavanaughs to completely ignore those other two furry things you live with, and focus entirely on you..
Love and Licks
Miss Birdy








Wednesday, June 22, 2016

It Has to Be Gin


Spring, 1961, Ave. A, East Village. The Berlin Wall is up, but the martini glasses are chilled, canapés are ready, and Miles is on the turntable. Early evening, with a slight chill in the air, a cashmere throw is tossed on the sofa. Will this be a night in, or will a venture out to Gerde’s Folk City be made to hear that new guy, Dylan? The doorbell rings and the other four arrive.




A Very Midcentury Cocktail Party – from Mildred Lindholm’s well-worn copy of Good Housekeeping Cookbook

 Assorted bread rounds, squares, and triangles
Crisp crackers
Parsley-Crab Spread
Cheese-And-Anchovy Spread
Cocktail “Hash”
Relish tray with celery, cauliflowerets, carrot curls, and scallions

Parsley-Crab Spread
Combine 1 c. finely flaked fresh or canned crab meat with 2 Tbsp. snipped parsley; 1 Tbsp. minced onion; 3 Tbsp. mayonnaise; ¼ tsp. curry powder; 1 tsp. fresh, frozen, or canned lemon juice. Makes 1-1/4 c.


Cheese-And-Anchovy Spread
Combine 3 3-oz pkgs. soft cream cheese with 1 Tbsp. anchovy paste, 6 Tbsp. light cream (1/2  & 1/2), ½ c. chopped stuffed olives, and 1 Tsp. Worcestershire. Makes 1-3/4 c.

Cocktail “Hash”
Preheat oven to 350°. Place the following ingredients in a baking pan and toss well:
1-1/2 c. bite-size shredded wheat cereal                   1 c. pecan halves
1-1/2 c. pkg. bite-size shredded rice cereal               ¾ c. salted peanuts
2 c. pretzel sticks                                                        ¾ tsp. garlic salt        
2 Tbsp. melted butter or margarine
Bake 15 min. Serve cold or warm. Even better if stored in tightly covered can (containerJ) to mellow a day or so. Makes 25-1/4 c. servings.


The Perfect Gin Martini – from Sid Cavanaugh
3 large jiggers of the best gin
1 large jigger of dry vermouth
Shake over ice (not stirred pul-eeezzzz)
Pour into chilled martini glass and add fabulous stuffed green olives or a lemon twist